Friday, July 20, 2012

Picture Perfect Huma Abedin

Huma Abedin is the news again ... Hillary Clinton's loyal right hand who has become a house hold name due to her husband,  nowadays disgraced congressman Anthony Weiner, sex-twitter, is making headlines because of two issues:

A)  Her Saudi Arabian origin.
B) A Hello! style photo shoot: At home with her husband and little baby, Jordan, speaking with "People" Magazine.

I know Huma well. Everyone who is friendly with Hillary Clinton - does! We used to joke that Huma is like an extension of Hillary. She is a beautiful woman, hard working, who has earned the trust of her boss, during challenging times like elections or personal issues with Bill.

If Huma were to suspect that someone was not loyal  or discreet about Hillary, this person would be removed from her inner circle at once. Loyalty has always been a priority to this talented woman. So to listen to some Republicans, speculating about her loyalty to the U.S., just because her family is from Saudi Arabia - is laughable. I would not make this an issue but because some circles are repeating these claims, I am bringing it up now.

When one throws dirt - some of it sticks. And some circles these days are trying to refer to her as a "Muslim mole!" That's what I call, paranoia.

God bless the former G.O.P. presidential candidate John McCain, for defending Huma and reminding all of us, that we are a nation of immigrants, which come from different cultures and religions. Whenever I talk with McCain, I tease him about some extremists around him.

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One day, I asked the non-stop working Huma: "What about YOU? What about your private life?"
She giggled  ... Her personal life was a secondary to her being available to Hillary. When she got married to Anthony Weiner, she thought, she finally arrived: "I never knew, I could have it all..." as Barbara Streisand said it famously when he got married to James Brolin.

Weiner was an ambitious politician who eyed to become the Mayor of New York. After divorced Michael Bloomberg, New York could use a First Lady. And who would be better for that role, other than the savvy and beautiful Huma Abedin?

The picture-perfect marriage was broken up one day, when Weiner's tweets of his private parts to several girls. His initial denials pushed the sex scandals to the front pages worldwide. By then, embarrassed Huma was pregnant with her first child. Weiner was forced to resign from congress. He disappeared from the headlines.

Until now ...

Huma reportedly arranged an interview and a photo shoot with the "People" magazine. The couple looks like lovey-dovey. It is viewed by many, as an attempt for a political come back. A premature one, some view.

Maybe? Yet - what do we expect from this young woman? To keep hiding, because of her husband's humiliating conduct? Are we going to punish her twice??

The smiling-loving photo does remind indeed a political candidate, running for and office, with his supportive wife, next to him.

Who would cope with such situation better than Huma? She must have known that it would be compared to the 1992 interview of then presidential candidate Bill Clinton and "standing by my man" wife Hillary after the Jennifer Flowers scandal.

Soooo ...What?

Huma looks sunning in these photo spreads. She is smiling with Anthony. Nice photos.

Only one thing bothered me though ...Hillary would never do that! When Hillary was a first lady, she protected the privacy of the 'First Daughter' Chelsea, like a lioness would. Hillary and I discussed that. She always said: "People can attack Bill ..They can go after me ..But leave my daughter out of the picture!" 

Literally. I can not remember any official photo shoots of Bill, Hillary and young Chelsea together.

My friend, the late Benazir Bhutto managed to keep her three children out of the limelight too, although she was the first woman prime-minister of Pakistan. Nobody recognised them, when Benazir, Asif and I had lunch in New York.  Read more about it in my book "My Benazir" (www.daphnebarak.com or -www.pipublic.com)

Huma chose to include her baby son Jordan in these photo spread. What an adorable baby.  It is her judgement. Yet, it is a decision, she will not be able to reverse. Unlike Hillary, she will not be able to say: "Leave my children out of the picture .."

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Marilyn, Amy, and Benazir ...


Dr. S. David Bernstein has just come with his conclusion about Marilyn Monroe's death ...

It would be 50 years, next month, to the death of the ultimate sex symbol. Almost everyone has an opinion about what happened that fateful night, August 1962: Did the vulnerable actress try to kill herself over her obsession with then President J.F.K. and his brother R.F.K.? Was it just an accidental overdose? Or - what she killed by ..The FBI? Mafia? ..

Conspiracy theories have lives of their own. Any attempt to argue against them, just fuels them more.

The latest revelation by Dr. Bernstein claims to be a proof, that Marilyn didn't have suicide on her mind a day before her death! Why? 


Because of a check, signed by her. Yes! The actress purchased a white chest of drawers worth $228.80 just 24 hours before her death. Bernstein argues that people who decide to take their own lives engage in shopping sprees. Purchasing drawers - say Bernstein - proves that Marilyn intended to use them. That means, she planned to be around ...
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It reminds me of my interview with Linda Tripp. Remember "The Most Hated Woman in America" (way before Casey Anthony)? Tripp was the White-House employee who befriended Monica Lewinsky and taped details about her affair with then President Bill Clinton. 


I asked her why she hated Bill Clinton that much. Tripp paused. Then she said: "I was Vinct Forst's assistant ... I was the last person who saw him alive ..." Forst was a top Clinton's aide who was found dead, after reportedly shooting himself. It triggered a lot of conspiracy theories. Tripp continued: "He asked me to get him a hamburger for lunch. It was his usual order. He ate it and left the office ...Few hours later - he was found dead. Daphne, a person who thinks about death would not order a hamburger ..."

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While spending time with musician Amy Winehouse, it was clear to me that this talented girl had so many demons to deal with. She shared with me painful moments. Yet - there were moment of self-adoration. She talked about to be "living forever" like other musicians who died young.  Yet - she was full of life and dreams. But a year ago - she was found dead, with 3 empty bottles of Vodka, next to her body. My book "Saving Amy" which is based on the 6 months I had spent with her and her family, may explain more.


And my beloved friend Benazir Bhutto was a loving mother. She had a goal: To return to Pakistan and become its leader once again. Yet - the timing she chose had red flags all over it.  It was so risky that it had been viewed by some of my friends as "suicidal." Sadly - she was assassinated on December 27th, 2007. You may understand more about Benazir's state of mind, during her last years, in my book "My Benazir."

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If we could just develope an X- machine to human beings' minds.

* Links  for "My Benazir" and "Saving Amy" are on: www.daphnebarak.com.
You can also visit: www.pipublic.com